We have expanded wisdom and self love. We know that behind every smile is probably a tear or two. Behind every tender stroke could have been a moment of compromise, and we hope that, in the strangely single land when we finally leave it, it is with calmness, maturity, bigness of heart and soul such that the love is all consuming and nothing is a compromise. We would have met the man or woman who is our true soulmate ,who may be different from us in every way but because what we love are the differences, maybe the smelly feet, not so funny jokes and quirkiness but it isn’t a compromise. We can truly embrace the saying, it is not how much you love the perfection but it is in loving the imperfection that spells true love.