Lust rushes, but love waits.
-Bridgett Devoue
The internet is my playground, the streets are my turf, fashion is my aphrodisiac.
-Bridgett Devoue
Indeed I have finally gained weight to my surprise. All along this has been a particular challenging thing to be done. I have tried many methods but it hasn’t been that successful. A lot of people have been commenting on it too. Mostly really positive comments but the jealous ones…are extremely negative about it.
But hey, I ain’t here to please you.
In all honesty, I don’t think my food intake has doubled because I have always love food and I eat a lot. Perhaps I eat on time now.
But I think one of the biggest factor would be I sleep better now. I get more sleep too lately, it has turn into a routine. Previously I did sleep a lot, but my timing was so random and bad. It was never a concern of mine despite knowing how crucial it is. I am very grateful that I am constantly reminded of sleep and the hours that I need to clock in.
The biggest factor has got to be the fact that I am happy. To be able to dump such toxic influence from my life has been life changing. It’s just so liberating and refreshing. Wee! I’m at a place of my life where it might not be what I had planned for myself but I’m happy and blessed with how it is shaping to be.
Alhamdulillah.
In all the falling, flawing, failing,
there is the grace of learning,
of shedding an old life, for a new,
let a new life happen to you.
-Nayyirah Waheed
– Luis Garcia
We have expanded wisdom and self love. We know that behind every smile is probably a tear or two. Behind every tender stroke could have been a moment of compromise, and we hope that, in the strangely single land when we finally leave it, it is with calmness, maturity, bigness of heart and soul such that the love is all consuming and nothing is a compromise. We would have met the man or woman who is our true soulmate ,who may be different from us in every way but because what we love are the differences, maybe the smelly feet, not so funny jokes and quirkiness but it isn’t a compromise. We can truly embrace the saying, it is not how much you love the perfection but it is in loving the imperfection that spells true love.