Tag: friendship
The Moon and The Stars
Never ignore a person who loves you and cares for you. One day you may realise you’ve lost the moon while counting the stars.
Take Note
Here are simple things to remember in life :
1. Age is just a number, it doesn’t determine your mentality.
2. Think before you speak.
3. Never stoop down to an idiot’s level. Or it won’t make you any better.
4. Don’t confuse ego and pride. There’s a fine line between it that makes such a big difference.
5. An empty barrel makes the most noise.
6. You’re partner is not a punching bag.
Honest Truth
I’ve been away from my blog for a while now. No lame excuses to give. But instead I’ve the brutal truth to share.
I’ve been in a total bad shape recently. How bad you may wonder? I broke down on one fine Friday while I was getting ready to work, all pumped up. Suddenly I felt my tears rolling down my cheeks. It went on and on. I couldn’t even stop it. I changed into my house clothes and went back under the sheets. Whipped up my phone and texted my bosses.
I’m exhausted and unhappy.
Family
I’m trying very hard to be a great daughter and sister. Trying hard to contribute to the daily household needs. Trying to provide Aizat with a comfortable life.
Somehow I feel like nobody appreciates me for anything that I try to do at home. I help them out in ways that I can. But whenever I need them, nobody is there for me. I feel very much alone. Maybe I shouldn’t be here with them. Maybe I’m nothing in their eyes.
Mean Green
In my struggle to make ends meet and pull through every month, I wish I had more.
Am currently spread across all accounts at work with my other business at hand to focus on.
Am in the middle of revamping jujuwiwitata’s at no such luck. I don’t have a supportive support system. Always pushing me down. Shooting down my ideas without even listening to a word that I utter.
The Great Indoors has finally launched. We’re currently working very hard trying to expand our clienteles. Working extra hard on it trying to spread the word.
I’m already handling three jobs and my financial needs are nowhere to match! This is tiring. This makes me want to give up. Should I take up a new job? Or should I take up more jobs?
Trying to pull through every month is tiring enough for me.
Friends
I am blessed with many. Some truly close. Some fairly close. I love them to bits. I hope to not be back stabbed like the many times I have been. I hope to have learnt my lessons of not being too nice to them and let them step all over me like a doormat.
Some of my friends are genuinely caring about me; this bunch is the one that have seen me at my lowest low and highest high. I love you guys and you know who you are.
Relationship
At this point of time, am not too sure what I have done to myself.
In 2008, I told myself I won’t date. It’s a waste of time and effort. I was hurt so bad back then. A break up that didn’t exactly had a reason behind it.
As years pass me by, I soften a bit. I opened up my heart to at least let some new people into it. I was told to let down my guard and give him a chance. Which I did, I was over the moon, happy beyond words. Getting to know each other was such a joyful journey. The similarities and differences was an interesting lesson.
However, I’ve never really been a lucky soul in the relationship department. Always getting dumped, cheated and used. It took a total turn. I had my arguments to it. But I kept quiet. You may wonder why? I’ve always believed that it’s good and best to respect other people’s decision. So mum it is.
It was really tough to digest but what choice do I have right?
So here I am now, sticking to what I know best.
Every guy’s best friend and not their dream girl. I’d live.
Health
My health has taken a toll on me. From tooth problems to my gastric kicking in again. Losing weight by the second. Always feeling lethargic. It feels like 2008 on repeat.
I can’t afford to go for a medical check up. I know if I went for one, the doctor is going to put me back on reflux pill and my weight will be monitored closely.
Insyallah I’d get out of this rut. Insyallah.
Those Little Things
“Never get tired of doing little things for others. For sometimes, those little things occupy the biggest part of their heart.”
First
Uno. One. Satu. Yat.
Everything in life has its first. The first time experience something. But then again its subjective to each individual.
The first time to every experience can be beautiful, special, magical, memorable and precious. However it could also be sad, tragic, nerve wrecking and so forth. Its how you see it, I suppose.
Sometimes in life I wish I could erase all those memories of the first.
Take for instance, the first time he spoke to me and we hit off. The first time we went out together and so on. I’m a person who has photographic memory. It can be great and it can be really painful. I recall every moment so vividly like it was only yesterday.
At times, this first moments could avoid you from doing stupid things in life, save you money, save you from a heartache and many more.
Yet, we all need this life lessons to grow up strong and wiser. Take every experience in life as a learning journey.
Don’t give up. Give it a shot. You’d never know what lies ahead of your life path.
Hold on tight. The ride might have its bumps but it’d be worth it. Have faith.
p/s : Cherish every memory in life. Its made you who you are today 
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ONE Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
TWO Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
THREE Don’t believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
FOUR When you say, ‘I love you ,’ mean it.
FIVE When you say, ‘I’m sorry,’ look the person in the eye.
SIX Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
SEVEN Believe in love at first sight.
EIGHT Never laugh at anyone’s dream. People who don’t have dreams don’t have much.
NINE Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it’s the only way to live life completely.
TEN In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
ELEVEN Don’t judge people by their relatives.
TWELVE Talk slowly but think quickly.
THIRTEEN When someone asks you a question you don’t want to answer, smile and ask, ‘Why do you want to know?’
FOURTEEN Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
FIFTEEN Say ‘bless you‘ when you hear someone sneeze.
SIXTEEN When you lose, don’t lose the lesson!
SEVENTEEN Remember the three R’s: Respect for self; Respect for others; and responsibility for all your actions.
EIGHTEEN Don’t let a little dispute injure a great friendship..
NINETEEN When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
TWENTY Smile when picking up the phone… The caller will hear it in your voice.
TWENTY ONE Spend some time alone.
