1. What happened to self respect?
2. What happened to dignity?
3. What happend to being loyal to your partner?
4. Why are they so cheap?
5. Why are they constantly serving themselves as early dinner?
The sight of all this makes me want to barf. You disgust me. You really do.
1. Easy come, easy go.
I believe it’s true to most things in life.
2. Great friendship is hard to find.
3. A true friend is one who accepts your partner for who she/he is for as long as you are happy.
That’s all that matter. You don’t have to impress them as they know he/she has impressed you.
4. Looking good and dressing up is not a crime.
5. Getting in a relationship and having a lot of exes doesn’t make you an expert or give you the right to judge other people’s relationship.
Getting in a relationship is easy as courtship is the best part of any relationship. But relationship itself is hardwork. It takes loyalty, commitment, understand and a whole lot more to make it work. Some are just meant to be as much as you hate to admit it. Some ain’t. True love and lust is different.
6. Having a good job is different than having a job that you truly love.
7. Do things that excites you or something that you are truly passionate about.
8. Listen to your heart.
You can get as much advice from just about anybody. But only you will know what is best for you.
9. Keep all cotton bud and cotton pads in a container which has a lid.
10. Respect works both ways.
If you want people to respect you, respect yourself first. Then respect others…only then will it come naturally.
What would you do after a long day at work, at uni or perhaps after a long day? All I would want to do is press number 7 on my mobile. Then I’d roll around in bed telling my stories and asking about his well-being. Talk cock. Joke and laugh my ass off. The sound of his voice is my instant pick me up.
What would you do, if you had free movie or concert passes? Who would you want to go with? It’d definitely be my #7.
If ever I was in pain, say for example I have a stomache. I’ll send a short text to my #7. In return I wanted an empathy text with a little comforting words and I’d be smiling from ear to ear. Forgetting the fact that am in pain.
At times, I’d have trouble sleeping. First thing I’d do is press #7 and he’d put me back to bed. I’d be knocked out within seconds listening to the soothing voice.
So what am I to do now? Press #7? I wish. But instead I don’t and can’t. I promised myself that he deserves what he wished for. Thus, I shall respect his decisions. While I playfully press the numbers without calling.
What to do cockadoodledoo!
Ever since I was a little girl, I had a mission in life. I had targets and goals to achieve. I was a go-getter, never settling for second best.
I excelled academically, did sports, played music, sang in the National Youth Choir, danced for MATIC and the list goes on. I was an over achiever all rounder.
I grew up, still driven as ever. But last year, everything changed. It all stopped abruptly. I lost the spark within me. I didn’t know who I was. I could not see my purpose. I slaved myself at work. Got totally engrossed in it. I forgot how to have fun. I couldn’t differentiate a friend to a foe.
I took a break from it all and am proud to say that I can finally see myself again. I know who my friends are. Who to turn to. Am slowly smiling again. At least I know now.
Currently am taking one thing at a time. No more juggling. No more trying to be wonderwoman. Am resetting my goals and putting my priorities first. I’ve got my drive within me. It’s always been in me. It never left. That thing that keeps me striving and keeps me alive.
Baby steps for now.
I hate the fact that I’ve heard girls saying this behind my back. I am a boyfriend stealer.
Yes, I am single. But it does not mean that I will prowl on every male I see. I do not date guys who are attached. Truth to be told, I don’t date. I find it a waste of time. Really.
I grew up with my cousins which are all boys. I be friends with guys easily. But no, I will not snatch your boyfriends. Am rather afraid of even hanging out with guys who are in a relationship. I’ve gotten too many insecure controlling girlfriends who hates me for no solid reason. Perhaps, there’s not trust in the relationship?
So please, save the trouble. I don’t want your man. I am happy with the way I am.
p/s: I can do better.
“A soulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are; we can be loved for who we are and not for who we’re pretending to be. Each unveils the best part of the other. No matter what else goes wrong around us, with that one person we’re safe in our own paradise. Our soulmate is someone who shares our deepest longings, our sense of direction. When we’re two balloons, and together our direction is up, chances are we’ve found the right person. Our soulmate is the one who makes life come to life.”
- Richard Bach
Last night when the world was sleeping, I stayed up and memories came flashing through my mind.
It was such fond and happy memories. I smiled thinking about it. Recalling them. Such happy times.
Without noticing it, hot tears started rolling down my cheeks and wet my pillows. Such strange feelings. Mixed emotions. I was sad, hurt and happy at the same time. I was crying and smiling at the same time.
Sometimes I wonder, how can something that meant so much to me just vanish into thin air. How can someone so dear hurt me so much yet…I can’t seem to hate that person. I still look up and have respect for that person.
Perhaps, am delusional.
What is a friend? How would you define a friend? What are the characteristics of a friend?
In my personal opinion, a friend is an individual that is trusted, close, reliable, honest and understanding. Normally a friend would have some common interest with you. This would be a bonus as you can create an instant bond. More topics to talk about. But having a conflict in interest will not be an issue, as a friendship is not just based on common interest.
A real good friend would be there for you through good and bad times without expecting anything in return. Friendship is not something that you measure. From my personal understanding, in a friendship you would always put yourself in others shoes before you make an option.
Friendship is no competition. It is just the love and how much you treasure the friend and the friendship you have. The more friends the merrier.
A true friend would be there for you in good times and bad times. A friend would be there with any obligations. Normally you can spot a genuine friend during your bad times. Whether their there for you or not. Sometimes a friend isn’t even someone you turn to for advice but more of comfort and just a hearing ear or a crying shoulder.
A true friend would defend you when you are not around or when someone is saying bad things about you. They would not make up stories or talk behind your back.
An awesome friendship would be based on honesty and respect. Have you good what it takes to be a great friend? Or do you have a great friend?
