Mondayitis Wise Words

There is no love without forgiveness, and there is no forgiveness without love.

Indeed the above quote is true. No relationship is perfect. It has it’s ups and downs. The challenges, disturbance, interference and many more.

An easy route would be just dropping it and starting something new with someone new. I am a fixer, a generation where we make things work.

I myself know that I am not perfect or easy to love. So why judge others for it? Always accept them, the good and bad. Never try to change them.

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Good Rituals

January 2017, a month in 2017 has passed us by. So quickly. Did you notice it? I sure did, work has been really busy but fun. Many projects coming in. Alhamdulillah, syukur.

I’m slowly adapting into new positive rituals while slowly tossing out them nasty shit.

  1. Do everything thoroughly, thoughtfully and with intent.
    Have a good intent. Do it right. If it doesn’t feel right, stop and just leave it be.
  2. Try doing nothing for 10 minutes a day at least.
    You deserve a downtime. Complete solace.
  3. Disconnect from technology and work for a while when you get home.
    Take a break. Recharge. Realign. You’d be able to do more chores in a shorter period of time. Get to do things at a better quality too without the distraction.
  4. Be present when you are with your loved ones.
    With technology at your fingertip, we tend to focus on it so much more. Social Media will forever be there, but the ones around us might not. Take a break from tech and be there. Be present. You don’t want to be missing out on major life events.
  5. Start a journal/blog.
    Write things down. This helps you to remember and also a good way to reflect. It could be virtual or even in a book. What works for you, should work for you.
  6. Prioritize.
    Your task, your goals, your time and the people you love. Focus on what is truly important first!

Hope this rituals follows through. What’s yours? Any tips for me? Do share.

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A Letter to Myself #1

It’s January 2017, the very first month in 2017. It’s been absolutely amazing. Alhamdulillah. Syukur indeed I am. Many important dates accomplished.

The year may have just started, but I’ve already crossed out a couple of my goals. So glad at how things are panning out for me. Hard work and hustlin’ has definitely been fruitful.

I’m a person who has many goals; financial, health, wealth, travel and many more. Some are written down in my trusty silver organizer and some on my phone. I’m toying with the idea of using Evernote but we shall see as my love for pen and paper is still too strong.

I’ve been in the dumps and I’ve been at better places but I know I’d be at an even greater level God-willingly. I’m also grateful to go through a few ordeals to reach certain goals with you by my side. 

As for those haters and assumers who plays God. Continue your speculation and assumptions, you’re just fuelling me. Clearly I am way ahead hence you’re so green right now.

Alhamdulillah. To greater things in life.

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