Juwita Jalil » paradigm http://www.juwitajalil.com Juwita's Tue, 27 Jul 2010 05:06:53 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 en hourly 1 Assumptions http://www.juwitajalil.com/2010/07/26/assumptions/ http://www.juwitajalil.com/2010/07/26/assumptions/#comments Sun, 25 Jul 2010 17:23:34 +0000 juwita http://www.juwitajalil.com/2010/07/26/assumptions/ “Assumptions is the mother to all f*ck ups”.

If you need an answer from me, all you need to do is merely ask. I’d gladly answer for as long as its not against my will or something too personal.
I’ve had one too many cases where people around me assume certain things. Which I believe is unfair for both parties. Why so? Both parties won’t know the real deal. Fyi, there’s always too sides of the story.
Save the drama instead shall we? So ask if you’re in doubt. Or if you need an explanation. Don’t keep mum. It gets you nowhere and might hurt you both.
Let it off your chest. Get the answer you deserve. Fine that closure within you.

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From work to love to and everything for all that matter.

So where do you draw the line? Where do you stop? Where do you mix your feelings and professionalism?

Have you ever actually take a step back and recalculate your position in life?

If you haven’t, it’s high time you do. Set things straight. Chose the person who you’d rather be.

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I’ve been out of a relationship for almost two years now. Some may wonder why am I single for such a long period. While some might wonder why I chose this lonely path.

Truth to be told, I do get lonely at times. I do miss having someone to call my own. But braving the life solo is not all that bad.

I chose to not date but this does not mean that I am not interested. I am just saving myself from another heartbreak. I am straight if you are wondering.

I believe that if you want a relationship to work. You work for it to make it work. No excuses. You put in the effort, you put in the time. You’ve got to be considerate about your partner. Know his/her needs. Make them your priority too.

But if you can’t sacrifice for them. You might want to think again.

Till the day I meet a guy who can tick all my boxes and won’t break my heart. I’d rather be happy on my own. I’ve got splendid people around me who really cares about me. So yea, I am a happy single girl.

Cheers!

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I wanted cute little texts when you thought of me.
I wanted my tuck me into bed/my daily recap call.
I wanted to wake you up. So you could be the first voice I heard everyday.
I wanted you to wish me good night. So you’d be the last person I spoke too.
I wanted you to hug me when I was overwhelmed with life.
I wanted to be in your arms to feel safe.
I wanted you to be proud of me.
I wanted to look up to you in all aspects.
I wanted to be there for you all the time.
I wanted to be the person to keep you happy.
I wanted to be the person who cooked you your favourite meals.
I wanted to take care of you.
I wanted to grow old with you.
All I ever wanted was to love you unconditionally till the very end.
But it was too much to ask for.

Well a girl can dream right?

]]> http://www.juwitajalil.com/2010/07/08/all-i-ever-wanted/feed/ 0 When The Heart Whispers http://www.juwitajalil.com/2010/06/01/when-the-heart-whispers/ http://www.juwitajalil.com/2010/06/01/when-the-heart-whispers/#comments Mon, 31 May 2010 16:31:04 +0000 juwita http://www.juwitajalil.com/?p=953 “It’s impossible.” said Pride.

“It’s risky.” said Experience.

“It’s pointless.” said Reason.

“Give it a try.” whispered the HEART.

]]> http://www.juwitajalil.com/2010/06/01/when-the-heart-whispers/feed/ 2 Growing Up Pains http://www.juwitajalil.com/2010/05/19/growing-up-pains/ http://www.juwitajalil.com/2010/05/19/growing-up-pains/#comments Tue, 18 May 2010 17:05:26 +0000 juwita http://www.juwitajalil.com/?p=907 “As we grow older we tend to grow apart. But that’s just not us. We’ve tried. But we can never be apart.”

- Juwita Jalil

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Early in the morning
I put breakfast at your table
And make sure that your coffee
Has its sugar and cream

Your eggs are over easy
Your toast done lightly
All that’s missing is your morning kiss
That used to greet me

Now you say the juice is sour
It used to be so sweet
And I can’t help but to wonder
If you’re talking ’bout me

We don’t talk the way we used to talk
It’s hurtin’ so deep
I’ve got my pride, I will not cry
But it’s makin’ me weak

I’m not your superwoman
I’m not the kind of girl that you can let down
And think that everything’s okay
Boy, I am only human
This girl needs more than occasional
Hugs as a token of love from you to me, ooh, baby

I fought my way through the rush hour
Trying to make it home just for you
I want to make sure that your dinner
Will be waiting for you

But when you get there you just tell me
You’re not hungry at all
You said you’d rather read the paper
And you don’t want to talk

You like to think that I’m just crazy
When I say that you changed
I’m convinced I know the problem
You don’t love me the same

You’re just going through the motions
And you’re not being fair
I’ve got my pride, I will not cry
Still I can’t help but care

I’m not your superwoman (Oh, no, no)
I’m not the kind of girl that you can let down
And think that everything’s okay
Boy, I am only human (I’m only human)
This girl needs more than occasional
Hugs as a token of love from you to me

I’m not your superwoman (Hoo, hoo, hoo, ooh, ooh, hoo)
I’m not the kind of girl that you can let down (Hey)
And think that everything’s okay (Don’t let me down, don’t you let me down)
Boy, I am only human (I’m only human, yeah)
This girl needs more than occasional
Hugs as a token (Ooh, ooh) of love from you to me

Oh, baby, look into the corners of your mind
I’ll always be there for you through good and bad times
But I can’t be that superwoman that you want me to be
I’ll give my everlasting love if you’ll return love to me

I’m not your superwoman (Oh, no, oh, no)
I’m not the kind of girl that you can let down
And think that everything’s okay
Boy, I am only human (I’m only human)
This girl needs more than occasional
Hugs as a token of love from you to me (Oh, no)

If you feel it in your heart
And you understand me
Stop right where you are
Everybody sing along with me

Hoo, hoo, hoo, ooh, ooh, hoo
Hoo, hoo, hoo, ooh, ooh, hoo
I’m the kind of girl that can treat you so sweet
But you got to realize that you got to be sweeter to me, oh, ho, ho

Hoo, hoo, hoo, ooh, ooh, hoo
Hoo, hoo, hoo, ooh, ooh, hoo
I need love
I need just your love

I’m not your superwoman (Oh, no)
I’m not the kind of girl that you can let down (You can let down)
And think that everything’s okay
Boy, I am only human (I’m only human)
This girl needs more than occasional (Hey, hey, hey, hey)
Hugs as a token of love from you to me

I’m not your superwoman

Got to love this song. It’s always a favourite of mine. Sue Ann introduced me to it. The lyrics are simple yet so direct. So guys listen up to this and understand. Haha.

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- TLS

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2. What happened to dignity?

3. What happend to being loyal to your partner?

4. Why are they so cheap?

5. Why are they constantly serving themselves as early dinner?

The sight of all this makes me want to barf. You disgust me. You really do.

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- TheLoveStories

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