I’ve been out of a relationship for almost two years now. Some may wonder why am I single for such a long period. While some might wonder why I chose this lonely path.

Truth to be told, I do get lonely at times. I do miss having someone to call my own. But braving the life solo is not all that bad.

I chose to not date but this does not mean that I am not interested. I am just saving myself from another heartbreak. I am straight if you are wondering.

I believe that if you want a relationship to work. You work for it to make it work. No excuses. You put in the effort, you put in the time. You’ve got to be considerate about your partner. Know his/her needs. Make them your priority too.

But if you can’t sacrifice for them. You might want to think again.

Till the day I meet a guy who can tick all my boxes and won’t break my heart. I’d rather be happy on my own. I’ve got splendid people around me who really cares about me. So yea, I am a happy single girl.

Cheers!

Update soon.

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- Juwita Jalil

Early in the morning
I put breakfast at your table
And make sure that your coffee
Has its sugar and cream

I’m not your superwoman

Got to love this song. It’s always a favourite of mine. Sue Ann introduced me to it. The lyrics are simple yet so direct. So guys listen up to this and understand. Haha.

Vivien Leigh

2. What happened to dignity?

3. What happend to being loyal to your partner?

4. Why are they so cheap?

5. Why are they constantly serving themselves as early dinner?

The sight of all this makes me want to barf. You disgust me. You really do.

I had a gut feeling that this year’s birthday would be awesome. Boy was I right. It was truly magnificent. I feel really special, loved, blessed and flattered. It was good. I took my family out for a Sunday brunch as Monday was a working day. Celebrated mum and myself. Went out the whole day. Scouted some interesting stuff that I wouldn’t mind owning soon :p

I purposely removed the facebook birthday reminder. I wanted to see how many actually remembered my birthday without the help of it. It feels like you are obligated to wish me coz there’s a reminder on the misserable right hand panel. I for one, have a hard copy of all my TRUE friend’s birthdates in my moleskin. Oh, story of the moleskin for another day. I still miss my bookbindersdesign like crazy! It was a test for my friends. Some aced it. Some didn’t

Anyways, my birthday was a truly amazing one. My set of girlfriends tried to surprise me. But if failed. Mot, asked me if I was free on Monday. So I made space for them. Everyone else thought I didn’t know about it. Reason being, Ummi was suppose to be my designated driver but she isn’t so familiar with roads just yet as she just got back from Japan. Hehe. So they had to tell me the whereabouts. But I love them for the effort nonetheless.

I got off work pretty late that day itself. So I was in a rush to get ready. Threw on an assemble in split second. Ummi was already downstairs. As I walked towards the car, I saw balloons. So pretty, they were lilac in colour. Am guessing they don’t know my favourite colour or they were just trying to be safe. But they were real pretty. So off we went to KL. The venue was then revealed. Fullhouse, Yap Kwan Seng. Luckily there was no jam. We were the second to arrive.

I helped them setup the table for the party. Hehe. How cute. The birthday girl helping out

I was so happy to meet up with my girls. Izyan, who just came back from Japan was there too. Liza, the uber busy fierce career woman. Liyana, the cutest little doctor. Mot, the workaholic auditor who loves to watch movies and work part time. Ummi, the quirky fashionista. It’s amazing how we have all been to different parts of the world. Got seperated. Yet still can be great friends. With different characteristics and what nots. We click together like a magnet. I love this set of girls. Their like the sisters I never had.

My awesome set of girlfriends.

Izyan & I!

Liyana & I.

Liz & I.

Mot & I.

XXS

Thank you so much girls!

Happy 53rd Ibu!

I have a feeling that this year would be a rockingly awesome year for me. Insyallah. Thank you for all the lovely wishes via facebook and also sms. Loving you long time.

It seems like a lot of my schoolmates are getting hitched this year. I guess 25 is a good age for marriage or perhaps the love bug got them? Nevertheless, congratulations Azlin and Amar. You guys look great together. Good luck and enjoy this new chapther together.

A couple of pictures from the beautiful night. Met up with a lot of my ex schoolmates. Aimi was so lovely to perform two songs for the lovely couple. We girls then continued our night at Starbucks.

The newly weds, Azlin & Amar

My date for the night, Ummi

Congratulations Azlin & Amar!

But my Sunday was awesome with my awesome girlfriends. A second, a minute, an hour or a day with them is just pure bliss. Sadly not all of us were present. Ummi was in Greece. Mot was in Perak. Izyan had things to settle for her first day of work. Here are some pictures of us having a lot of fun in the sun on a sunny Sunday.

Liz & LiyanaLittle me!

Love them to piecesDon’t we look uber happy?Ampang duo.

Doesn’t it look like we had a blast? I know I did. Am also loving this summery Hollywood like pictures :p

- Juwita Jalil