July 18, 2010

Lessons on Love

Relationships. What do you think of it? As for me, it’s a crazy rollercoaster right. It has it’s ups and downs. Good days and bad days. Just like our glorious mane (hair). Haha.

I’ve been out of a relationship for almost two years now. Some may wonder why am I single for such a long period. While some might wonder why I chose this lonely path.

Truth to be told, I do get lonely at times. I do miss having someone to call my own. But braving the life solo is not all that bad.

I chose to not date but this does not mean that I am not interested. I am just saving myself from another heartbreak. I am straight if you are wondering.

I believe that if you want a relationship to work. You work for it to make it work. No excuses. You put in the effort, you put in the time. You’ve got to be considerate about your partner. Know his/her needs. Make them your priority too.

But if you can’t sacrifice for them. You might want to think again.

Till the day I meet a guy who can tick all my boxes and won’t break my heart. I’d rather be happy on my own. I’ve got splendid people around me who really cares about me. So yea, I am a happy single girl.

Cheers!